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jeri
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« Reply #20 on: September 11, 2006, 11:38:41 PM »

Quote from: HomeOwnage
i have no religion - atheist sounds gay,
im ok with girls being gay but not guys
thats just wrong two guys in bed together - (imaginary image = scarred for life)


u say that ur not homophobic around gay girls...but in ur post u also said "atheist sounds gay"....just saying that is being homophobic. ur using the term "gay" as a insult


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« Reply #21 on: September 12, 2006, 12:19:56 PM »

@jeri

i disagree
i don't understand how you can say "no, i don't mind them at all"
yet still go on to say "but i don't think they should be able to get married"
that doesn't make any sense
you hate them, becuase if you didn't hate them, you wouldn't care of they got married or not

i actually remember having a very similar conversation with a co-worked about this very same topic
and i asked her if she found out if her best friend was gay, would she support her.
and she said no.
i was amazed at how far and how blindly some christians will follow their faith.
it's unbelieveable that she wouldn't not support her closest friend and the reason behind it is simply "just because"
Christian's hate gay poeple "just because". there is no reason, it's just because you're told to. just because someone dosen't approve of it.
my girlfriend hates riding on the bus because she gets car sick.
i hate my manager at work because she is too controlling and makes unresonable requests.
but Christians hate gays "just because"
and this is why i gave up on Christianity (and all religions in general). so many Christians do things "just because". it's as if they can't think for themselves.


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« Reply #22 on: September 13, 2006, 04:34:32 AM »

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but about the hate thing. it is not to say christians are unfair to gays. they don't discriminate against them, as they do not disadvantage them any way. the whole marriage thing is a farce, as to put it technically- in order to get married in a church you need a man and woman, who love each other (or one is rich) and are faithful to one another (preferably) obviously need to be christian aswell.


ok
this is the last time i'm going to say this: yes, Christians discriminate against gays.
is there something about discrimiation that Christians don't understand?
last time i checked, Christiand do not allow gay people to get married BECAUSE THEY ARE GAY. that is DISCRIMINATION by definition!

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dis‧crim‧i‧na‧tion  /dɪˌskrɪməˈneɪʃən/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[di-skrim-uh-ney-shuhn] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation
–noun
1.   an act or instance of discriminating.
2.   treatment or consideration of, or making a distinction in favor of or against, a person or thing based on the group, class, or category to which that person or thing belongs rather than on individual merit: racial and religious intolerance and discrimination.
3.   the power of making fine distinctions; discriminating judgment: She chose the colors with great discrimination.
4.   Archaic. something that serves to differentiate.

http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=discrimination&x=0&y=0

i don't understand why this is so hard for you to admit. because the second definition:

2.   treatment or consideration of, or making a distinction in favor of or against, a person or thing based on the group, class, or category to which that person or thing belongs rather than on individual merit: racial and religious intolerance and discrimination.

is exactly how Catholics treat gays.


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« Reply #23 on: September 13, 2006, 11:48:32 AM »

that's all i'm trying to argue
i'm so sick of people telling me they are "fine with gay people" then turn around and say "they can't get married"
because you're not fine with them so stop lying to other people and to yourself about it
if you're not fine with gay people, just say so. why lie about it?


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« Reply #24 on: September 14, 2006, 11:58:07 PM »

christians are christians. if they have something against gay marriages in church then so let them be. homosexuals can just get married elsewhere. it's just their values. we should just learn to respect them... and vice versa
you cant really change the values of a religion which has bn around for so long.


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« Reply #25 on: September 19, 2006, 12:34:40 AM »

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Quote from: HomeOwnage
i have no religion - atheist sounds gay,
im ok with girls being gay but not guys
thats just wrong two guys in bed together - (imaginary image = scarred for life)


u say that ur not homophobic around gay girls...but in ur post u also said "atheist sounds gay"....just saying that is being homophobic. ur using the term "gay" as a insult


jeri your an idiot - a homophobe is someone who has an irrational fear of homosexuals, im not afraid of homosexuals, thats not being homophobic its more like an oppression against homosexuals

 secondly the way i used the term "gay" , gay as not "happy" or "homosexual" as in the meaning of "lame" . you know the word gay has more then 1 meaning and meanings change over time depending on how society uses it. and to avoid confusion instead of saying dislike gay guys, i would say dislike homosexual guys but i have nothing against homosexual marriages cuz it doesnt concern me.
- me being scared of homosexual guys? sif


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« Reply #26 on: September 23, 2006, 02:29:59 AM »

ok.. this is very weird.. cuz sometimes i am okay with homosexuals.. and sometimes.. i am not.. i had a friend who was a lesbian.. and i have an online guy friend who is gay.. sometimes i am okay with em.. sometimes i am not.. i think its because of my mood swings.. sometimes i am in my 'whatever makes u happy' mood.. and sometimes i am in my righteous mood!! hahahhaha..

people sometimes think that i am too comfortable around my girlfriends.. but i am straight..

lots of men hate it when they are called gay.. if i was a dude.. i'd hate it if someone called me gay..

it's just that its easier for women to be comfortable with each other.. men are more proud and stuff.. even if they are comfortable with their friends.. being called gay is crossing the line!!


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